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SnowMaN
- 14 posts
June 16, 2012 4:05 PM PDT

What's the deal with texting back and forth with a dancer?

What do the dancers want to accomplish by giving there #?

Are we becoming a regular customer?

Are we trying to meet outside for something?

Does anybody esle end up with a lot of dancers cell #'s. chit chatting with them over text?

This post was edited by SnowMaN at June 16, 2012 7:59 PM PDT
Manual
- 1518 posts
June 16, 2012 4:09 PM PDT

No. I don't "text". If I get a number, I just use it to get the dancers schedule. No OTC for me.
NY
- 102 posts
June 16, 2012 6:24 PM PDT

Manual said:
No. I don't "text". If I get a number, I just use it to get the dancers schedule. No OTC for me.

Same for me. The only message that ever get sent to dancers is "When are you working this week?". Like Manual, I avoid OTC relationships whenever possble.
lopaw
- 207 posts
June 16, 2012 8:35 PM PDT

Yes - I've got a cellphone full of dancer numbers. About half are for sharing her schedule w/ me or for me to ask if she's working on a particular day. The other half are for OTC activities.
qbg
- 89 posts
June 16, 2012 9:40 PM PDT

For me, texting with club faves is all about days and times, appearances and disappearances. I don't chit-chat via text. These days, though, I'm not clubbing enough for it to make sense for me to hold more than a couple numbers.
Manual
- 1518 posts
June 17, 2012 2:50 AM PDT

@lopaw: you meet up OTC? can you share a story? PM me!
lopaw
- 207 posts
June 17, 2012 7:14 PM PDT

@Manual - it might be too spicy for this forum, even in a PM ;)
weegato
- 12 posts
June 20, 2012 2:27 PM PDT

Are you asking for their number? Do they offer their number first? I haven't ever befriended a dancer long enough to even consider this. I just kinda come in hang out, drink, get a couple dances and take off. So I repeat...How does this even get started? Someone please help me out with this one.
Manual
- 1518 posts
June 20, 2012 2:41 PM PDT

I never ask. not all girls will give it out. but if they do, they usually offer it up after they see me, chat with me, or dance with me a few visits. but I hardly ever text or call. I usually just throw it away, or delete it from my phone.
qbg
- 89 posts
June 21, 2012 4:50 PM PDT

Typically, for me, I establish a pattern of visiting, and then it may make sense to ask the dancer for an email or phone number so I can check with her on when she's working, e.g., "Your shifts are kind of unpredictable; is there a way I can get hold of you?" The eventual result may be an OTC visit, but usually not. Anyway, I'm not really looking for friendship with a dancer (or more to the point, they're not interested in friendship with me), a very few exceptions notwithstanding.
Deleted Member
June 21, 2012 6:36 PM PDT

I have found over the years that most strippers basically "text only" and rarely, if ever, talk on the phone with PL's to carry on a lengthy conversation. Secondly, I guess lopaw is too embarrassed to tell Manuel that she meets OTC with strippers at Starbucks, Macy's etc. Just a thought.
lopaw
- 207 posts
June 21, 2012 7:10 PM PDT

A wrong thought, kobe88....but a thought indeed ;)
Deleted Member
June 21, 2012 7:35 PM PDT

Oh, there are other reasons? JK. JK

This post was edited by Deleted Member at June 21, 2012 7:36 PM PDT
Z Bone
- 519 posts
June 21, 2012 9:14 PM PDT

I've found that over the years, texting has become the way for dancers to keep in touch with their customers. For some dancers that are not comfortable with this, they can use this site before they give out their number.

However, dancers (and customers) should be very careful with their Facebook settings. One dancer gave me her number and my mobile FB app recommended her as a "friend" and her account was wide open and I was able to not only see her full real name but pictures of her family and friends. That scared the sh*t out of me and I changed all my FB settings.

This post was edited by Z Bone at June 21, 2012 9:19 PM PDT
pm477
- 2 posts
July 4, 2012 6:22 PM PDT

Like the others above, I've done some texting with dancers. In every case the dancer initiated the phone number exchange (sometimes they ask for a business card, which I've never turned over). They use it to reach out to me to let me know when they're working, or I use it to see when they're working.

One dancer did text me a nude photo of herself once. Good advertising.

Only one dancer ever used it to make calls instead of texts. She would call begging me to come to the club. Then she'd go on talking about why she needed to quit the business. She was pretty erratic, and no surprise I learned some time later that she had a drug problem.

No real OTC meetings have ever been arranged this way, except for one time when I asked a dancer if she was working the club that night, we set up a private performance instead.
Willywad
- 23 posts
July 5, 2012 9:17 PM PDT

I've never asked for a number, but some dancers have given me their numbers after a dance. And i have, mistakenly, given out my number, twice upon dancer request.

For me, the number exchange happens more often than any other club at Starz. The two times I've given out my number, I received a couple of texts followed by a series of calls. Too many calls actually. I never answered, but got messages ranging from their schedule, to wanting to spend time together outside of the club. After about 6 calls without a response, they generally lose interest, but it kind of freaks me out. I don't give out my number anymore.

I can just imagine my phone sitting out when I'm visiting my parents' house, or a girlfriends house. A dancer calls and my mom answers my phone, or a lady friend answers the phone. Certainly not a conversation I care to have with my mom.
SteveTaylor
- 137 posts
August 13, 2012 1:39 PM PDT

I had a dancer give me her number after my first visit. She was clever because she had two phones, work and personal. Getting her number made you feel like a big shot.
Malachai
- 101 posts
October 19, 2012 7:12 PM PDT

I only ask for the number if I want to meet OTC. I make sure to tell them not to waste my time if they are not serious as I have limited minutes. Strippers overall are flakes and are lacking in the soul department. They are missing something major that separates them from "normal" dames. Know what you are getting into and keep it physical and fun. When it comes to feelings be a Tin Man.
lopaw
- 207 posts
October 19, 2012 7:25 PM PDT

Not all that long ago getting a dancer's digits was a BFD to many customers. And maybe rightfully so, since not many girls gave their numbers out to just any shmoe that they met in a club. But nowadays they give out phone numbers like Halloween candy. I have actually started turning down some that I know I don't really EVER want to see again in the club, much less OTC.
Det. Leche
- 148 posts
October 19, 2012 8:38 PM PDT

I get dancers phone numbers bc they come in handy for job references, emergency contacts, when filling out surveys, etc.

I know what OTC means. "Off the Charts" obviously. What does BFD mean? Is that like BFF or BBC?
lopaw
- 207 posts
October 19, 2012 8:44 PM PDT

*Big Fucking Deal
*Outside The Club

Doncha love acronyms?
Manual
- 1518 posts
October 20, 2012 8:46 AM PDT

What's BBC?
sal_acious
- 465 posts
October 20, 2012 9:55 AM PDT

Manual said:
What's BBC?

Big Boob Chicks
Manual
- 1518 posts
October 20, 2012 4:36 PM PDT

thanks bro.
Det. Leche
- 148 posts
October 20, 2012 7:56 PM PDT

sal_acious said:

Manual said:
What's BBC?

Big Boob Chicks

Sal - Doesn't every acronym mean Big Boob Chicks to you? For us normal people, BBC obviously stands for Big Black Cock. It can also stand for "Bugging BootyCall" which is only something Louis does whenever the Raiders play.

This post was edited by Det. Leche at October 20, 2012 7:57 PM PDT

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