So I didn't know where to start this thread or to even start it from the get go but I had a few other members of this site mentioned they've encountered the same treatment from white dancers at strip clubs. As I mentioned yesterday in my updates, I've encountered this treatment not only in clubs in southern california but also at clubs in Arizona. You see, the ONLY color any dancer should see is GREEN. The whole concept of a strip club is for a gentlemen to relax, have a couple drinks and interact with women who he is attracted to without fear of being judged or rejected based on their race or social status. This isn't the case with dancers who are white. Now the reason why I point towards white dancers is because that's my preference and quite honestly, my self-esteem cannot take the fact we're supposed to be living in a time when racism is supposed to be at its minimal and it has for the most part, to anyone that isn't hispanic. I understand that there are white women who just go up to white males and I don't see this as insulting, it's ignorant but not insulting. What is insulting is these WHITE WOMEN who approach Black guys, Asian guys and basically anyone that isn't a "mexican". That right there is beyond racist and it's occuring more and more at strip clubs everywhere. Now I recently had one of the moderators here message me and essentially stereotyped me like, well, the same way 90% of white women stereotype "mexicans" as... he essentially said I should "CHANGE THE WAY I DRESS" "CHANGE THE WAY I TALK" AND THAT I SHOULD "FREQUENT CLUBS WITH MOSTLY LATINOS WHERE THERE AREN'T MANY WHITE WOMEN". Not only did this guy stereotype me as a "Thug" he essentially said I should stick to going to clubs that just have minorities. Problem is, I'm attracted to white women so 1) why should I spend my hard earned money on something I don't like? 2)Why do I need to go to a place that "my kind" outnumbers, for one, I'm not a "gangster", I don't listen to hip hop and am doing EVERYTHING POSSIBLE to not fit these NEGATIVE stereotypes. I'm a college graduate with a BS in Business Management and when I go to clubs, it's to buy dances and get the attention of girls I cannot get while at regular clubs. I don't want to deal with this here but I still do... Again... who knows if this will be deleted or whether my account wil be deleted (been a member of this site since 04) but at least I have the joy of letting this out and perhaps, creating a change in how white women protray and look at latinos....
And while I'm at it, I should might as well drop a name that I will always remember for how rude she was... Her name is Jesse Lynn or Jessica Lynn. She works at SPEARMINT RHINO TORRANCE, daytime and nighttime usually there Weds through Fri, drity blonde, petite, wears glasses... My Latino brothers, DO NOT SUPPORT this girl.. She doesn't care for "mexicans" but I'm sure if you're a darker brown, she'd be all over you, even if you have no Green, which again.. is supposed to be the ONLY color WHITE STRIPPERS should see :D
LMAO what a lame attempt Melikiblondes and what again are you bringing to this subject? So what you're saying is ALL latinos are like this and that's their excuse to label us in this manner? Really? Because if we're going to play that game I can label every white guy as a Racist Uppidty Douche who thinks he knows everything or how about labeling every black guy as a thug trying to rob me? Or how all Asians can't drive? Or that All Arabs are terrorists? Or that All Jews are cheap? But yet, I don't think that because I was raised better than that and in a business where you're ONLY supposed to see the Green, it shouldn't be happening
what am i bringing? Maybe some perspective that
a. sometimes stereotypes actually are true percentage wise
b.This business and none that i know of, are "all about the green"
girls have different levels of what they like to do and what they won't. Some do not like to be nude and that is why it is optional in some clubs. Sometimes a girl will get nude that normally does not, if she feels comfortable. I know girls in this industry who prefer to dance with guys that are "their type". That is their right this is not prostituition it is lap dancing and the girl has every right to her preferences. Now that can be based on whatever she wants it to be, maybe she does not like guys who wear a particular cologne, or guys who bathe in it.
The bottom line is the choice is up to the dancer, you don't have to like it but that is reality.
Dan-it's great to know that you support the "girl on girl" arts! Like you, I am also based in the SouthBay, tho I have been venturing out further lately beyond the Bare & Jet, which are my usual haunts. Sal mentioned Baygirls - Have you tried it yet? It's just around the corner from SR-Torr. Last time I was there there was a decent selection of dancer ethnicities. The customer base was predominately latino & the dancers approached most everybody in the club from what I could see.