Have you ever fallen in love with a dancer / customer?
Did you tell her / him?
What happened?
How did it end?
What do you think?
I would love to read about your experiences, opinions, ideas, what you have heard from your friends / co-workers etc.
Please keep it polite and civil.
If you'd like to stay anonymous you can PM me your answer.
Yes - a dancer
Yes I told her - it scared the living "you know what" out of her at first. She pulled away at first but then...we dated for some time.
Life took us in different directions and the love affair moved towards friendship and the next thing we knew we weren't seeing each other at all.
She called many years later. We caught up but never reconnected.
I fell in love with someone years later who told me she danced at one time. Interesting how life plays out.
Quick8 said:
Hey guys...well...I have to be honest...this is the first time I post on this board...just joined like 10 min ago. I did because I met a dancer today...at a Club in Industry...she is amazing...very cool and down to earth... Anyways, it made me change my thinking about dancers and what they want in life....I think I am more than just interested in her... What advice can you give me. Quick8
[LouASS]-->Just take this all in as FANTASY not REALITY!!!! You have some Strippa's that know how to hustle, Know how to push the right buttons, to have Men fork over their. Some have been in this game a LOOO000ng time and are very good in playing Jedi mind games with guys emotions.
Sometimes some guys don't know the difference(especially newbies/new to this hobby) and get caught up way too much in Fantasy land that they need a freind in hand to bitch slap him to come to his senses. Just watch, If you aren't spending
Sometimes I think they should create a new Academy Award for best "FAKE actress" as some of these strippers know how to put on a GREAT SHOW and I'm not talking about them dancing on the stage, but working out on their acting skillz out on the floor with the Poor saps who fall for it. Not most, but many do & falling in love,Stalking, Going bankrupt, I'm sure happens, but most dancers don't care as long as they are getting paid as that is their job to create Fantasy an illusion that some guys are too stupid to understand.
Benn said:
No
Haha!
Quick8 said:
Hey guys...well...I have to be honest...this is the first time I post on this board...just joined like 10 min ago. I did because I met a dancer today...at a Club in Industry...she is amazing...very cool and down to earth... Anyways, it made me change my thinking about dancers and what they want in life....I think I am more than just interested in her... What advice can you give me. Quick8
Hey Quick8,
This is just my take on it, but if she isn't willing to spend time with you in the club while business is slow and is not willing to meet with you outside of the club for a something casual or even just texting etc, move on and clear your head. She's probably just looking to empty your wallet.
I understand she may not be willing to meet with you or exchance numbers after a first or second encounter. But if you're dropping fat amounts of money just to get some face time with her, I think that's a very very very very bad start.
Also you got to keep in mind, are you going to be okay with her dancing if you two do end up getting together? Are you trusting enough, not the jealous type, etc etc etc etc.
Sorry to be a killjoy, just trying to help.
Monga Akbar said:
If I want real intimacy, I will pursue civvie not strippa. Some guys have fear of commitment. It's natural. No guy want to be stuck with wrong girl for rest of his life. You get divorce-you are stuck for child support, etc. Strippa are okay to rent/lease some physical fun for a while. Monga
Alot of "civvies" are far more screwed up than any stripper. I have met and worked with alot of nutjobs, I can't even began to tell you. Believe it or not some of the people in the sex industry are the much more balanced and "normal" than people outside of it. My best friend married an escort. She is a sweetheart, very smart business wise and street wise. An just a good person, very well adjusted. They have been married ten years now and everything is great. They have a nice family with kids. If he had an attitude like yours he would have passed up a great woman & a great life...
