I go on this site regularly and notice P.L's referring to themselves or us men on the page as losers.
I may be only speaking for myself or for the few real men on this site. I don't think your a loser when you work and are able to earn extra money to spend at a club. Really some of us have gone to school acquired degrees and work good jobs. That my friends is not a loser.
I think my fellow P.L's have to get out of this loser mentality. Sometimes you just have to break it down for what it is. When a dancer tries to treat you like crap and make you feel like a loser tell yourself this: "Who's the loser? This chick works for my dollars that i put up there if I feel like it and she also has to walk around naked trying to please a bunch of strange men." I know it sounds harsh. But that's the way you have to think to get out of the loser mentatlity.
Then there are dancers who know how to play the game and these are the girls you spend your hard earned money on.
I don't know. Sometimes I think this site has met to many men that have been dominated by women and have never been allowed to live.
It is a good think I am the Patron Saint of P.L.'s here to liberate them from their suffering.